I had all these big plans to write posts every day last week, and this week, and well as you may have noticed I really haven't had much to say. I used to get really down on bloggers who went on hiatus due to moves or life changes. I'd think things like, geesh don't they plan anything ahead of time? Don't they care if their readers get bored and stop checking in? It's not like they're the only people who ever...
Let me tell you, I'm a changed woman. This whole moving/uprooting your whole life thing is really hard work. Really hard work. I don't sleep any more, eat only when absolutely necessary, and my body feels like it's been hit by a truck (twice). I'm like this grumpy, undressed version of my worst self and I hate it. I get angry over silly things, laugh like a crazy person when yet something else breaks, and get manic when coffee levels run low. If you don't believe me, ask Ryan, he'll back me up. The poor man has had a lot to deal with these last few days.
We're almost through the worst of it though. We've gotten all but one Jeep load in our new place, our couch is gorgeous and assembled thanks to IKEA, and our apartment in Virginia will be completely cleaned and locked up today. God willing. There will be a full nights rest one day soon.
I've definitely learned a few lessons from this new adventure we're embarking on; change doesn't get easier as you get older, radio silence on a blog is sometimes very necessary, and husbands are incredibly resilient to temper tantrums in the back of Uhauls. Oh, and my husband is awesome; while me...not so much. What have you been up to lately? big kiss, bekuh
I hope you are able to enjoy the settling in process after the chaos of moving. I'm still not sure how my parents moved so many times (7 times just in the first eight years of my life).
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Moving doesn't seem to be one of those things that gets easier with experience, unfortunately. I've moved seven times in the past six years and there's always more stuff than you thought you had, and more to do than you had anticipated.
ReplyDeleteAnd I'm sure I'm not alone in saying this: please take all the time you need to recoup! While I look forward to your updates, I also understand that you're human and you're going through a big change in your life. In the mean time, though, cuddle lots with Nelly. :) It's amazing what dogs can do to a stressed soul!
TOTALLY understand this. I had a terrible attitude about EVERYTHING when we moved. I just hated everything at that time. I wanted my life to be organized already, and things were just chaotic, and I couldn't handle it. You are definitely not alone when it comes to this, Bekuh! The only thing that made things a little better was reminding myself what we were moving for.
ReplyDeleteGood luck with the rest of your move, it'll be over soon!
xxx Sabrina
Aw, best of luck and I can so relate to this, my husband is the awesome one and I'm usually the grumpy/stressed out one. ;) Hang in there girly, can't wait to hear more about the new place + yay new couch... and you'll be back to your old self soon. xo
ReplyDeleteOh my sweet Bekuh. Sounds like you need some hugs. Wish I could have been there to help you with the move! But yay, it's almost over! Can't wait for things to settle down a bit so I can see some peeks of your new life :)
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I bet it is really tough! I will be doing the same as well and while I am super excited I know it will be stressful!
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couldn't agree with this more! when we moved to philly, i learned how awesome my bf was and how crazy i can be!
ReplyDeleteHang in there girl. I know exactly how you feel. Change is not easy and it doesn't get better with age. No, no, and no. It gets harder as we get older because we're AWARE that change. A child goes along with change because he or she doesn't know any different. Awareness, in this case, is not a good thing. Try not to THINK about the change, just DO. Go through the motions of the next couple of weeks and soon enough, it will all be over.
ReplyDeleteoh, such a long process. sending you good vibes Bekuh. embrace the change
ReplyDeleteI totally understand what you're going through--I am the WORST with change. I just found out I've been accepted to a master's program and instead of being thrilled, I've been crying about it and worrying a lot. Your new apartment and job and city will all be so great, I'm sure you'll relax and be back to feeling like yourself once you are settled. Good luck with everything! I can't wait to read about your adventures in Philadelphia--I so miss living there.
ReplyDeleteJust breathe there kiddo, it'll be ok. :)
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lovely post. take your time getting back into the swing of things! dont worry about your readers--- we love you too much and well always be here!! <3
ReplyDeletegood luck with everything!
take as much time as you need, Bekuh! don't stress about us :)
ReplyDeleteand don't feel like a bad person for cracking. this is life and Ryan's there for the good and bad no matter what.
I hear you lady! We just moved across the globe, camping on the floor, while finding a way through a new country, while already full time working and freelancing...and trying to keep our blog going.
ReplyDeleteWe have been flat out. It's easy to underestimate the change.
I hope our readers will hang in there and will forgive us the slight delay in updates, we are doing our best!!!
Don't stress I will sure keep following your blog! I love it. Lots of extra energy and balance to you guys. x
Don't worry about it, after you settle in you'll get back in the swing of things! We'll still be here when you get back!
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I just moved and I wish you the best of luck. Luckily it's just me and my father paid for movers! That certainly helped. I moved into my own little studio apartment (out of a house with roommates) and I'm almost unpacked. Change is weird, but I hope you'll be happier. I know I am!
ReplyDeleteaw, wishing you lots of luck with the move! try not to put too much pressure on yourself!
ReplyDeleteHahaha! Bekuh, you're so funny! No one blames you for taking a small break. :) Relax, and don't give up on your move--I'm sure this change is just making you stronger. The funny thing about these experiences, is you usually find yourself laughing at them later on down the road. :) Good luck!!
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Good luck with the move...moving can be so frustrating and tiring.
ReplyDeleteWhen you have time, do something special for yourself :). Celebrate!
Change is hard but you seem to be moving in a great direction.
Also, I love your blog and good vibes!!
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just stumbled upon this post and had to say I felt the same way. i thought with all the changes in my life i could be fully invested in my blog as well, but it didn't work! last week i posted that i'd be taking a short break and have only read since then, and it's taken a little weight off :) good luck to you!
ReplyDeleteI may not comment on every one, but I have missed your posts. All the best with the move. Hope you get some much needed rest soon!
ReplyDeleteGood luck! Man do I know change...
ReplyDeleteIt'll be amazing soon and you'll appreciate everything you learned and the hard work you did :)
Went to Morocco. Photos up soon, come by the blog if you need a break! ;)
Valentina
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We understand! Do what you need to do. Let yourself become manic for a few moments when you feel overwhelmed...and then apologize to the hubs. He loves you so much, even through the most shockingly un-caffeinated moments.
ReplyDeleteGet yourself settled in your fantastic new Philidelphia life. We will be here waiting.
We all need a break from time to time. And anyone that blogs can certainly understand that at times blogging is just NOT at the top of the list....living is.
I'm excited to see your new place, and hear about your work days, and hopefully see some of your favorite spots in Philly!
when you get back to it, I'll be here. :)
I'm so excited for you guys and your new adventure- but you nailed it, CHANGE IS HARD. That's probably why we don't do it very much :) I've been wanting a big move like this too but I know if it happens I will be seriously freaking out and sad at the same time. I have the same kind of husband- one that knows how to be the calm in my storm ;) Take whatever time you need!
ReplyDeleteYou DO need a break sometimes! I used to be all crazy and try to post twice a day, but it just got overwhelming. Sometimes it takes learning the hard way that quality over quantity matters. YOU, dear girl, are full of quality!!
ReplyDeleteGood luck with all the new and exciting changes!!